Most people want to find the right guy. Ideally, they will be together, get married, and have children. Most people enjoy success in fulfilling their goals. Rebecca Goede believed it too. She was proud to call herself the life of her husband. She had a little little girl. All seemed promising, but she couldn’t guess what would happen next. That gave her a shock she never expected. For several years, she didn’t really know what she was dealing with.
Her Life Was Perfect
We’ll give you an idea of her life before it started downhill Mrs. Goedechea was comfortably raised in Jacksonville Beach, Florida. She had found the right husband with whom she had a daughter. Life had been ideal before then. She announced, “I should travel across A1 for lunch” My vehicle still included sand and seashells. Many will die to have her life, but this could be the calm before the hurricane. She was blind to the fact that a hurricane was coming.
Everything Went According To Plan
Most people apparently have an understanding of what their future holds. For some, the dream is to get married, have children, reside, and have a career. All was going well for Rebecca. She completed nursing school, got a college degree, and had a stunning daughter. She had already gotten her lifelong dream job as a pediatrician. She toured locations like Kansas City and Nashville. She then agreed to retire in Florida.
Nothing Can Last Forever
And here you see, she’s enjoying life. She lived in the breathtaking countryside. No matter what the weather, they could still stroll to the beach. She was pleased with her marriage. The sky looked blue in Florida. Will it last a long time? It is too amazing to be real. This is what she will figure out. Later, she shared her story about what happened on a blog. Looking back on that point, she noted, “My life was about to be destroyed. But why?
A Confusing Sight
It began on a Monday a few days after her daughter’s birthday. The celebration was massive, so the family gathered to celebrate the event. They have no idea that these would be the last good days for the family. She went to work every day and then drove home, But as she neared the building, she noticed something was wrong. For one thing, there was trash strewn around outside the building. She went to find out. This began the rest of the reality that was about to be revealed.
It Was The Beginning Of The End
She seemed to have no idea where she was heading home to. When she arrived, she noticed how bad it was. Initially, she had been unable to see anything beyond her home. The moment she parked, the situation became apparent. All their things in the yard All was trashed out there. This should only happen in the movies as she was on her way up. She knew that this was the issue. They were evicted. Stuff was still out of place.
She Did Not Expect It At All
This was the start of a period of tragedy for her and her family. This was not a fluke. She had learned that something was wrong for the first time. He had been keeping a big secret from her this time. All she had painstakingly put in her garden had been destroyed. This was worse because she could not even get into her own house. It was unbelievable that it had been fine and ordinary in the morning. All crumbled.
The Truth About The Eviction
Rebecca was terrified and appalled. Even though nothing terrible really happened because she still paid her rent on time Really, she goes as far as to label herself responsible and ordered. She has no idea why they were evicted, So she wrote to the landlord. She was surprised to learn that they were three months in are already. When she first thought it was business as usual. However, this was just the first of many.
The Pain Of His Betrayal
She worked all evening and found that she couldn’t even go inside. What sealed her fate was having all on the lawn, But most of all, he had been lying to her the whole time. Nothing could be worse than this. It looked like someone stabbed her. She said, “I felt like I had been stabbed and was going too slowly to stem the bleeding. It was a horrific tragedy. This was something new to her.
It All Started To Make Sense
The emotions she was experiencing were unavoidable. She sighed and wondered what this meant for them. The longer she considered it, the more reality dawned on her. She found he had been very odd in the last few months. As he was losing weight, he took on odd work and slept oddly. He still seemed as though he was going to keep her away from coming. He could not tell her a straight story if he tried. There were several warning signs. However, there was one exception to the rule. All were beginning to make sense.
The Most Alarming Red Flag Of Them All
Rebecca looked back and forth, taking note of several subtle warning signals. However, the largest was his. This week, she found out that he doesn’t park on the driveway anymore. Instead, he would park it in locations farther away from their house. During that time, Rebecca was too busy with work and their daughter. Despite this, she found that the vehicle could be useful. She understood that the first place to look for answers was right here.
She Could Not Believe Her Eyes
So she ran to him. It was time to go looking. He wanted to know what he was up to. Was it much? What horrors was he concealing? even if she did, she was frightened; it was confirmed that she was right Prescriptions, as well. She had made up her mind. If she finds out, she will have a lot of problems. Is she an addict?
The Investigation Was Not Yet Over
She did not cease looking until she found the containers. She tested the boot of the vehicle. It was darker than I expected—a mountain of mail. Many were presented to her specifically. She told me that “He had been collecting letters from collection companies and birthday cards in his car for YEARS.” She was unaware of the letters related to bill settlements and eviction. It was a disappointment to her.
So Many Negative Emotions
“I felt just wounded and confused for the last two days.” There is no doubt that this is almost too much for her. Yet, she had no other choice but to do so. No notice was given, so she had to pick up the pieces completely. This was perfectly normal for her. She couldn’t sleep or eat due to pressure. She said she had been “working on fumes” for two days, trying to sort it out. It felt like he had been shielding many things from her during their marriage.
She Now Had A Terrible Credit Score
What she is grappling with today is much harder because of this. However, no other choice remained. Rebecca asked him about it. As a result, she discovered that he had lied about almost everything! He has used his personal loans and credit cards to support his addictions. Rebecca was surprised by how easy it was to be obtained in her name. There was a loophole in the process, and he exploited it. He severely hurt her reputation.
He Had A Double Life
For Rebecca, her husband was the one guy who knew her well. There is confidence in the marriage. No matter how you do, they will be there to help you. Regardless of what she had believed, that was not the case for them. Really, he was a complete ghost of his former self. It was just a big lie. He had previously lied to her. Besides that, he even fabricated his career and educational background. His greatest shock was that he got another.
It Fell Apart At A Target
He devastated her. She felt totally lost after the truth had been revealed. He has been lying to her for almost a decade. He didn’t fulfill her expectations. This is beyond all disaster. They will never stay with the marriage after what had happened. She asked him about what she’d learned at Goal. This certainly would not do. Moreover, he left his wife and daughter outside in the parking lot! She discovered everything, then had to find a place to live because of him. She was alone.
Time To Start Anew
A lot of transition has arisen in a limited period of time. Her choices were few. She’d been kicked out of their house and didn’t even know she had a mortgage. There was no other choice than to find a motel. Otherwise, her daughter would be homeless. She started the new chapter of her life in a small-town America. Living in a hotel was not easy. Really, things are going well. She was at her finest today. We are impressed by her commitment to rectify the situation.
On The First Night
Rebecca knew that this was just the beginning. She had no idea what would happen to them. She didn’t have the wherewithal. She could concentrate on the moment and attempt to make her child feel content and secure. She headed to the nearest Walmart to purchase clothing and necessities for two days. She worked hard to make her daughter happy even when she was under pressure.
It Was the Least Of Her Worries
Her husband has broken her, but she’s over it now. She is also responsible for losing their credit, leaving them homeless, and dumping them on the Goal parking lot. For all her worry, she was able to save her daughter’s life. Truth be told, Rebecca reassured the little girl that they were on holiday. Though she played along, she knew all good times ended when you went home. Thanks to her duplicitous ex, she had none of those left. Did she want to help them?
She Planned To Live With Her Parents
When things get complicated, you will still have someone to depend on. A lot of people go to their parents when they struggle or fail. There was no exception to the norm. This made the most sense. Is it still the best thing to do? The reality was that they were an orphan. Therefore, she returned to Tennessee. Her parents supported her. It was more difficult to restore her well-being; however, she should continue to make things easier.
A Change Of Scenery
How did you move from warm Florida to snow-covered Tennessee? It was vastly different. Scenery, landscape, and society were starkly different. Rebecca may have wanted this. Life can be full of surprises. A change of scenery may be needed. It helps to live in a diverse place. When you’re on the road, you can feel more primed for new experiences. Naturally, nice friends to support you while you are feeling low will be very much appreciated.
The Tears Would Not Stop Falling
Rebecca came to the right decision to return to Tennessee with her family in the end. She wanted to get away from the man who had ruined her marriage. Despite her family’s encouragement, she was unable to feel better. It has been hard for her to weep since the night she saw him. Everything that had happened to her, she was dreading the future. She doubted she could feel pleasure again. Is she really blind or just ignorant? What will happen to her daughter? Trying to think about it made her eyes well up. Most of all, she was concerned about her child.
Do Not Give Up
In her role, you would definitely want to give up. You didn’t go looking forward to it, so why would you? It would be far too easy to let one’s whole day cry itself. With her daughter’s future in mind, she couldn’t let that happen. And though she wept several tears and felt crushed, she struggled to get back on her feet. For the sake of her daughter, she needs to find a way. And if he broke every bone in her body, she would not let him harm her further.
There Is Always A Silver Lining
She was embarrassed to return to her family. At the moment, she was 32 years old. It looked indecent to have a toddler in her apartment. “This couldn’t “get WORSE” This, however, still gave her a glimmer of hope. She was happier where she was. It connected with her family as well. It was snowing at the time, so the little girl and her grandfather went sledding.
There Was Light On The Horizon
She decided not to return to Tennessee, and so all went well for her. Her parents were pleased to see them. Even the girl was delighted. Rebecca will what, next? Before she had her license sorted out, she was not permitted to work. Instead of applying for a travel nurse job, she instead opted to save money to settle her husband’s debts. When there was spare time, she would love playing with her kids. She wasn’t alone, either. In actuality, she soon found herself having contact with an old acquaintance. The situation was improving for her.
Reuniting With Old Friends
She lived in the city, which helped her to make new friends. Rebecca reached out to some of her old friends. She messaged an old lover of hers and began talking. Jokingly, she wondered if he should show her to single dads.” Even if she was cynical, her friend shouted, “Yes!” He told her about Steven. Rebecca looked at his profile on Facebook and pictures. This was the beginning of a whole new chapter in her life for her. The bleaker she would have been, the more promising the future became.
Even Though It Was Scary
The reality was she just tried to make new ones. It was time for her to get her life back on track. After that, she began to have her own problems, which is understandable. Ready for this, she exclaimed. The divorce was settled, and it took her a while to believe again. Who will have her trust? However, Rebecca was hopeful for single motherhood. Better to expose herself, no matter how frightened she was.
She Looked Him Up First
Initially, she paused as it arrived. Could she even have a date? She had never done this before. She needed to know what kind of guy he was. After reviewing his Facebook profile, she went through his pictures. He has a daughter as well. The kid was of the same age. Rebecca shocked her mother when she showed him and his daughter the photo. Her mom surprised her by saying, “I know that one! What was she babbling about?
There Was A Strange Connection
The Biesenthovens all resided in Memphis. It came as a bit of a shock that her mom knew the little girl. People in this town meet everybody. To her, it was a warning. She needed to know what was going on between her mother and the kid. It points out that his ex-sister wife has a hairstylist. The girl was present in abundance. When her mother figured out that Rebecca and Steven were likely to go out, she encouraged it.
Finally Making A Move
At her mother’s request, Rebecca concluded that she had nothing to risk. She was up for a try. She was shocked when he sent his phone number to her. she was caught off guard when the phone rang after giving it to him. She believed he’d text back. If she had never spoken to a stranger on the phone before, He made it a bit uncomfortable, but he wanted to speak with her. He needed to speak to us. Yes, I do. In the 90s, it was a hot mess! That was fortunate, but she had so little to do. It went well, in fact!
A New Chapter In Her Life
She felt uncomfortable at first. Steven has yet to introduce himself. They had never talked to each other before. Though she hesitated, he was quick to answer. Considering she was in a fragile mental condition, She quickly became friends with him. They had been there for hours, talking to her. Additionally, they never stopped talking until the early hours of the morning. We walked the night together. I estimate it was after 2 a.00 a.m. It may sound corny, but she had really been mended.
What They Wore On The First Date
They had spoken on the internet, so they made an appointment to talk. It’s no surprise to you that she was as well. They had been divorced for years. This was her first proper dating in years. She had enough of fortitude. She had no idea what to wear, so she searched her mother’s room for clothing. She selected a top and trousers in the end. Though it was not fashionable, he was not wearing a tuxedo. He was on duty when they departed, so he came in his uniform.
She Could Not Stop Thinking About Him
Upon seeing him, she had no choice but to be a little frightened. Steven was tattooed and bald. He was also a police officer. He had an air of command. She had been on a date in over a decade. She didn’t know how to start. Though he had a rough exterior, she fell in love with him quickly. She was beautiful. They talked a little about lunch. They even helped the buddy!
It Felt Too Good To Be True
Was it fun? Is she really interested in him? I felt fantastic all afternoon.” I was completely beaming. He was constantly on my mind. She said: She just felt smitten with him for one date. Most of the partnerships take time to develop, but these two don’t. It happened suddenly, like lightning. We’re happy to know that Steven expressed the same view! Later, he telephoned to say that he had a wonderful time. He asked her out on another date, too.
Her Feelings For Him
Rebecca already knew that she had feelings for him. She took on his offer of another date! On Friday, they met up again and had a great time with each other. On top of that, they finally shared their very first kiss. She revealed, “I knew at that time this was something special.” As they got to know each other more, she only fell deeper in love with him. Steven looked like a genuinely caring and nice man. Could he help Rebecca mend her heart? Moreover, was she ready for a serious relationship? The whole time, she wondered if she could trust him. By then, she already knew that looks could be deceiving.
Full Of Worries And Hesitation
Anyhow, she couldn’t avoid worrying about this character. It was an unbelievable proposal. Regarded herself as defective goods. Her credit was the worst, and she was heavily in debt. Steven was at a complete loss. She understood that he was reliable, but he could not be around forever. She’s been through so much agony and heartache because of her ex-boyfriend. Could he take care of him? Or does she suffer the same tragedy? and other questions were on her mind
The Girls Hit It Off
Ultimately, nothing could matter more. She got what she deserved. On that weekend, they took their daughters on a date. They all celebrated Easter on Sunday. The kids hit it off! They looked like old friends or twins. It was obvious that they should be a happy family. Is it possible? Rebecca said that she could sense herself healing. This proved to be correct in the long run.
She Was Allowed To Snoop
After that, something happened really quickly. Steven remembered what she’d been through, so he volunteered to walk her home. He didn’t want to pose like the other jerk! He felt as if he had nothing to hide from her. Besides, he liked Rebecca very much. This has always been his plan, in essence. They had kids. Finally, Steven proposed to Hannah and asked her to be his wife. I realize now why I didn’t want to go through with the process of finding a job.” “Home is a haven.”
They Finally Exchanged Vows
They got ready for the celebration. Rebecca and Steven eloped just a short time after they met. Their beautiful daughters acted as flowers and bridesmaids in the reception. Rebecca thinks it was excellent. She could not imagine being this free ever again. It was one of the hardest times a woman had to go, though. It just made her stronger. She is at her peak. We are thankful that she met a reliable spouse who remains loyal regardless of circumstances.
Things Worked Out For Them
Since they got married, they proceeded to buy a larger home. They had more room to grow, as she was expecting a boy. She discovered she was with a child sometime after her 35th birthday. In the birth of Junebug, the family added a new member. Rebecca has confidence that things will turn out well in the future. Despite having difficult ex-spouses and careers, they stick together because they have each other. Life is difficult but manageable when you have the right companion.